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Cats owned: Moggy
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Location: Kidderminster
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22-03-2008, 05:58 PM   #1

May not be on much for a while


Just though I had better pop on and let you know that I may not be on much for a while,I wouldnt want to get you all worried or have a slapped wrist of Elaine for leaving my sick note.

Ed and I have seperated,Im not going to go into to much detail as he pops on now and then,but there was a 3rd party involved so I came to the decission that maybe it was time we called it a day.

He has moved out to a friends so Im now up to my eyeballs trying to sort things out with the house which I am desperate to keep but if im honest with me being made redundant with in the next couple of months that isnt looking very likely ,however I may have found a solution to this,Ill know more later tonight.

I am absolutely devestated,I didnt wish for it to end like this he has been the main focal point of my life for 6 years,such a shame when 1 person can change all of that

Oh well,Ill survive and Im sure come out the end a much stronger person.

If Im not on please dont worry,ill be fine and ill be back full time as soon as things are sorted out.

Speak soon xxx



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Cats owned: 2 moggies
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Location: Aberdeen, Scotland
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22-03-2008, 06:04 PM   #2

Re: May not be on much for a while


You take care of yourself Erin xxx You know where I am if you need anything
Chin up and stay strong, you'll get through this xxx



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Cats owned: 2 lovely boys and a beautiful girl
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Location: Telford UK
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22-03-2008, 06:43 PM   #3

Re: May not be on much for a while


Oh Erin I'm so sorry chick. You take care of yourself and you know where we are if you need us. Don't stay away too long xx



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Cats owned: Magnificent moggies
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Location: Hampshire, UK
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22-03-2008, 07:00 PM   #4

Re: May not be on much for a while


So sorry Erin - hope you manage to sort everything out. Be strong love and I hope to see you back here after a while.

Merlin sends purrrrrrs. XX



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22-03-2008, 07:06 PM   #5

Re: May not be on much for a while


Sorry to hear this Erin, thoughts and hugs with you...



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22-03-2008, 07:07 PM   #6

Re: May not be on much for a while


I'm very sorry to hear this Erin, it'll be a tough time for you to begin with, but you're strong enough to get through it.

Don't forget we're here for you...... xx



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Cats owned: Domestic Short hair
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Location: Lincs
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22-03-2008, 07:12 PM   #7

Re: May not be on much for a while


From the ashes comes a Pheonix-you have to believe that(hug smiley)



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22-03-2008, 08:23 PM   #8

Re: May not be on much for a while


Sorry to hear that Erin Stay strong xxx



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22-03-2008, 08:42 PM   #9

Re: May not be on much for a while


Very sad news, Erin. Hang in there, be the strong woman you are; we're here if you need to talk...Bighugs, xxxxxxx



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24-03-2008, 08:59 PM   #10

Re: May not be on much for a while


Erin, I read your post but didn't have time to reply in a meaningful way without someone looking over my shoulder. I'm so very sorry that you and Ed are parting - 6 years is a good long time - I hope you both move on to what makes you happy.

You sound very balanced and pragmatic about things, keep the focus and don't let emotions get the better of you when trying to work out where you're going.

I'll be thinking of you an as many have said, if you need to talk we're here to listen. Lots of love and luck.



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