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Originally Posted by yola
Poor kid - that really does send the most negative signals he should be more responsible  At least when OH and his ex split his kids knew exactly where and when they would be seeing him and it was cast in stone; nothing moved their days. |
Thats like Dave when he split from his wife they sat down sorted out the days/weekends...that worked for the children for her and for him and then they were cast in stone....no one moved the days.....until the children were older and they had parties etc
. But they never had a problem over them seeing their Dad, and they put everything on the table with eah other so that the children could not play one against the other......as if they would
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But everything was cast in stone....whe I came on the scene after the split. I fitted in where I could although after a year I was put on the contact for the school in case of emergencies..........
...so must have done something right. I would not ever let him miss time with the children "NOT THAT HE WOULD" same as his Ex wife's new partner he is the same happy to take second place to the children......as it should be.
