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Cats owned: Tiger and Lester
Join Date: Mar 2011
Location: Inverness, Scotland
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30-05-2011, 12:26 PM   #11

Re: I think I need some help :(


Thanks Pamela and everyone else, this has made me feel like there is light at the end of the tunnel. I will keep at this and try and relax a bit too, I think me being tense probably doesn't help either x



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Cats owned: Leia: blue torbie
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Location: Washington, DC, USA
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30-05-2011, 03:56 PM   #12

Re: I think I need some help :(


I agree about the tenseness: they can sense it. Cats are far better at reading our body language than we are at theirs.....



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Cats owned: Tiger and Lester
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30-05-2011, 05:06 PM   #13

Re: I think I need some help :(


Well we have been having a nice day today, Tiger has been a lot less hissy today and has been chilling on his beanbag. Lester has been watching a bit of Nigella Lawson and has been quite chilled too. It helps that I have been way more relaxed too, back onto the road of progress



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Cats owned: 2 domestic short haired
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30-05-2011, 05:31 PM   #14

Re: I think I need some help :(


thats how my 2 started out when they started getting on. they will still have spats but the will calm down. Harris and Skye still have them but not as bad or near as much but still atleast 1 everyday but we have only had skye since february so they are still sorting their own issues out. I also started relaxing more and it does help. They are definately alot better now and alot more relaxed around each other. I posted a thread in teh forum asking for advice aswell and got some great responses. Maybe worth having a wee look



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Cats owned: Tiger and Lester
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30-05-2011, 05:48 PM   #15

Re: I think I need some help :(


I read your thread Pamela, also have a book to keep me right too. I think I will just need to keep calm, hold my nerve and above all be patient



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30-05-2011, 06:27 PM   #16

Re: I think I need some help :(


definately!!! it really does help. Hope the thread helped aswell. As i said, i have recently been there so i know what yur going through. Feel free to email me as well, if i can help, i will.



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