Or Register for FREE!


Welcome to our Cat Forums!
Welcome to our CatForums!
You are seeing this message because you are viewing our cat forums as a guest.

You can continue to browse our many cat related areas as a guest but you are more than welcome to register and join our friendly community of Cat Lovers! ... And for free!

Doing so will also remove this message and some of the ads, such as the one on the left.

Please click here to register.

Reply

Natalie's Avatar
Catsey Senior
 
Cats owned: 1 Tabby Moggy & 1 Grey Moggy
Join Date: Oct 2008
Location: North Wales, UK
Posts: 844
28-10-2008, 02:18 PM   #1

can i have a hug please?


I'm losing my sanity today. Koko is crying permanantly which is upsetting me and both girls are crying and stressed because of it. He doesn't sleep at all in the day at the moment so we are not getting any respite.

Fun club messed up millies taster session so she didn't end up going so she was hysterical and now she won't be able to go for the full day on Thursday as she can't go somewhere she hasn't been before. ARGH

Hubby is on nights and weather is pouring down so can't even get fresh air.

Sorry I'm just having a bad one and with the kitten crying like a baby constantly I'm losing the will to live.


Have a got the baby blues?



Reply With Quote


Moli's Avatar
Catsey Veteran
 
Cats owned: Exotics,oriential,siamese,& Mogg...
Join Date: Feb 2005
Location: Scotland..
Posts: 27,164
28-10-2008, 02:25 PM   #2

Re: can i have a hug please?






Sure Koko will settle, its early days yet.....xx





Reply With Quote


dinahsmum's Avatar
Catsey Veteran
 
Cats owned: 2 moggie boys; 1 grey 1 red striped
Join Date: Sep 2004
Location: SW England
Posts: 12,761
28-10-2008, 02:27 PM   #3

Re: can i have a hug please?


Yes probably - and you're probably beating yourself up with thoughts like 'It's too soon after Willow', 'I shouldn't have done it', 'All my fault' etc, as we all tend to do
Remember with the children - how they go through phases and you think 'I can't stand this behaviour any more' ... and then they stop it .... and develop another one that drives you even crazier. It may well turn out like that.

Siamese cries are very particular to them, and very like a baby crying.

Hope you can grow a nice Siamese proof shell. Otherwise I'll send you a nice big padded envelope and you can send him here

Take care - it'll work out.



Reply With Quote


yola's Avatar
Catsey Veteran
 
Cats owned: 1 Persian and one b/w moo-cat mog
Join Date: Oct 2005
Location: Reading, Berkshire, UK
Posts: 12,771
28-10-2008, 02:59 PM   #4

Re: can i have a hug please?


Oh Natalie, it sounds like you're having a bit of a pants day I hope things settle down soon. It's difficult when you're trying to placate upset children and a stressed kitten and they're probably feeding of each other's upset.

Hang on in there, I'm sure it'll get better!! Hugs.



Reply With Quote


angieh's Avatar
Catsey Veteran
 
Cats owned: Magnificent moggies
Join Date: Oct 2007
Location: Hampshire, UK
Posts: 21,718
28-10-2008, 03:02 PM   #5

Re: can i have a hug please?


Big hugs Matron! Sorry you've got the blues.

How did Koko get on with his hot water bottle?



Reply With Quote


Natalie's Avatar
Catsey Senior
 
Cats owned: 1 Tabby Moggy & 1 Grey Moggy
Join Date: Oct 2008
Location: North Wales, UK
Posts: 844
28-10-2008, 03:11 PM   #6

Re: can i have a hug please?


DM - I am missing willow lots and feeling guilty. You hit the nail on the head.

Ange - I think he liked it as he was quiet lol.

The breeder said he only cried when he wanted food especially breakfast. If I let him out of his room he wanders round the house crying and if I put I'm away alone he cries and is now sulking and depressed.
Can't get him to play with toys yet.

Think another brew is called for and chocolate. After all, a brew solves everything



Reply With Quote


angieh's Avatar
Catsey Veteran
 
Cats owned: Magnificent moggies
Join Date: Oct 2007
Location: Hampshire, UK
Posts: 21,718
28-10-2008, 03:18 PM   #7

Re: can i have a hug please?


I had a quick look last night for those microwavable teddy bears that Fran mentioned. They make them for people too!!! Have to say I'd like one - may have to ask F.C. and you sound like you could do with one too!



Reply With Quote


Moli's Avatar
Catsey Veteran
 
Cats owned: Exotics,oriential,siamese,& Mogg...
Join Date: Feb 2005
Location: Scotland..
Posts: 27,164
28-10-2008, 03:19 PM   #8

Re: can i have a hug please?


My sons girlfriend has one, which I have pinched for the kittens...



Reply With Quote


angieh's Avatar
Catsey Veteran
 
Cats owned: Magnificent moggies
Join Date: Oct 2007
Location: Hampshire, UK
Posts: 21,718
28-10-2008, 03:21 PM   #9

Re: can i have a hug please?


Sweet! Photo opportunity perhaps?



Reply With Quote


Catsey Veteran
 
Cats owned: All black and white and tortie's
Join Date: Oct 2006
Location: United kingdom
Posts: 2,228
28-10-2008, 03:32 PM   #10

Re: can i have a hug please?


I sure he will settle down shortly. I felt exactly the same when we got the kittens i got them 2 days after losing kay. I still think of her all the time like any of us that have lost someone we loved. I am having daughter problems my self as well. So i know how it feels when nothing seems to be going right and sympathese with you

Big hugg from all the gang here



Reply With Quote

Reply