|
Welcome to our Cat Forums! | ||||
Welcome to our CatForums! You are seeing this message because you are viewing our cat forums as a guest. You can continue to browse our many cat related areas as a guest but you are more than welcome to register and join our friendly community of Cat Lovers! ... And for free! Doing so will also remove this message and some of the ads, such as the one on the left. Please click here to register. |
|
|||||
|
|||||
Quote:
I have 3 dogs and 6 cats a hamster and rats on the way. I love my animals and I have came to the conclusion that it is their loss if they don't share my passion, everyone likes something different. They are not just my pets but part of my family and also my hobbies too I suppose, I enjoy looking after them. My dad loves the animals he just thinks I have too many, when i'm ill with flu or something then I suppose I can then see his point as it is just me and my son at home and I do struggle a bit then, otherwise everything is dandy, they are well looked after and happy and so am I and that's all that matters to me. |
|||||
|
|
||||
|
||||
I get the same with my mum as well. My friends think i am mad but they get over it. I take care of all my animals in ever way they need it. I even look out for other peoples as well. I say its up to you and what you want that counts. jane |
||||
|
|
|||||
|
|||||
That's why I love these forums - like minded people!!!!! My family are tolerant of me as they know this is who I am and will never change, but yes, they do think I am mad. We are getting another greyhound puppy, (cruelty case) She arrives in England from Ireland tomorrow!! We were going to my brothers for Christmas Day, but he is coming to us instead as he doesn't want to risk the puppy weeing/pooing on his carpet or being destructive. I can understand this, I know not everyone feels as I do. |
|||||
|
|
|||||
|
|||||
I'm fortunate; most of my friends are cat or dog people and understand that my cats are family; not a chore or a bother; well loved. I did have a few people at work that simply did not understand why I was so upset when one of my cats died: got remarks like "Well, it (it!! not "he"!) was just a cat", and "I think you cried as much as when your Dad died" ! Insensitive, hurtful remarks from people who simply do not understand the bond we have with our animals. It's their loss, IMO. My parents are long gone, but they both were animal people also; no sibs. Excellent thread, Matron! |
|||||
|
|
|||||
|
|||||
my family hasnt really said anything about my animals,ive always had cats,the i got the dog a few yrs ago,was basically to get me out the house,as im a bit of a hermit,i have no kids an dont see many people. the cats now 15 and the dogs nealy 4,then in may i go the kitten,was thinking ahead to when the oolder cat goes,company for the dog n me.my gran thought i was mad getting another cat,till she saw her n then,she decided i wasnt so mad after all my mum died nearly 7 yrs ago n she always said when she retired,she'd get a dog.so guess in a way,i did it for her |
|||||
|
|
|||||
|
|||||
Family wise my mum and sister are cat lovers but wouldn't have a dog. My friends that I consider close are all animal lovers to greater or lesser degree. Work mates tho are a different lot. I too have had problems with no understanding of why I'm upset when a beloved pet dies. I have real probs getting time off a short notice for vet appointments, often having to take a full days leave for a 20 minute appt. Yet if it is a GP appt for myself 'take as long as you need'. My immediate boss has gone as far as to say 'I don't understand whay anyone would want a pet animal never mind have it in the house - dirty smelly things'. What does that say about me?? |
|||||
|
|
|||||
|
|||||
I know people can be just insensitive or downright rude about "pets" but luckily I haven't encountered any so far! Both my parents are long dead and I have no siblings (like dandysmom) but my Mum loved cats - my Dad, well he loathed them - had a phobia I think. Mum was so pleased when I got married, left home and got a cat! I work for a couple of different peole - one has dog and 2 cats and the other is also phobic. I feel very sorry for animal phobic people as they have absolutely no idea what they're missing. I particularly like parents to encourage their children to love and care for animals. There's nothing nicer than seeing a child behaving well with cats, dogs and other animals. Good thread, Matron - sorry you've had bad comments. |
|||||
|
|
|||||
|
|||||
My family are animal lovers and we were always brought up with dogs and cats but my parents seem to think that you shouldn't have more than one of any kind and when one of your animals die then you shouldn't get another straight away and to enjoy the freedom????? What? I remember my dad crying when we lost our cat smokey. I think they just worry I'm taking on too much. They mean no malice. As for work mates then yes many don't understand the deep upset of losing an animal. I had to lie once and say I had lost a member of the family when I couldn't go into work as I just knew they wouldn't understand. |
|||||
|
|
|||||
|
|||||
I think I'm just thick skinned but I really don't care what other people think of my life choices! OH and I are happy with our moggies and it's no-one elses business. Make the choices that are right for you Matron and feel proud that you are providing a happy home for people and animals alike. |
|||||
|