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15-05-2007, 11:07 AM   #21

Re: Bad day, really upset.


Thanx Clair. It's not like I threw the bird into a pit of cats and left it there which is how he was making it sound. I'm sure we'll be fine it's just one of those petty arguments people have from time to time, it just came at a bad time which made it all feel worse.



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15-05-2007, 11:09 AM   #22

Re: Bad day, really upset.


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Thanx Clair. I'm sure we'll be fine it's just one of those petty arguments people have from time to time, it just came at a bad time which made it all feel worse.
Me and my OH used to 'bicker' all the time, I think it slowly stops the longer you have been together
Glad your feeling abit better



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15-05-2007, 11:09 AM   #23

Re: Bad day, really upset.


you will both be fine kel,we all have those petty arguments



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15-05-2007, 11:10 AM   #24

Re: Bad day, really upset.


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Me and my OH used to 'bicker' all the time, I think it slowly stops the longer you have been together
Glad your feeling abit better
im still waiting for them to stop when do they stop.....ive been with my oh nearly 6 years are they going to stop soon



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15-05-2007, 11:17 AM   #25

Re: Bad day, really upset.


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im still waiting for them to stop when do they stop.....ive been with my oh nearly 6 years are they going to stop soon
Dear me
Me and my OH dont bicker much at all these days, just dont see the point, Im very hot headed so have learnt to just walk away from the situation before it gets heated, I honestly cant remember the last time we argued or bickered, Ive been with Paul almost 6years, Maybe its because we have had the kids



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15-05-2007, 11:17 AM   #26

Re: Bad day, really upset.


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im still waiting for them to stop when do they stop.....ive been with my oh nearly 6 years are they going to stop soon
6 years, hahaha i've got a while to go then if your still waiting!



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15-05-2007, 11:19 AM   #27

Re: Bad day, really upset.


lol,we bicker about stupid things all the time,things like whos turn it is to decide where we are going if we are going out,or whos turn it is to decide what we are having for tea we end up just laughing about it though about 10 mins later



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15-05-2007, 11:38 AM   #28

Re: Bad day, really upset.


These silly arguments get out of all proportion at times.
Either say "I am sorry" or "I love you" and see what the outcome is

Karen



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15-05-2007, 11:53 AM   #29

Re: Bad day, really upset.


I'm glad you feel a little brighter today Random, remember you did nothing wrong and that's the important thing

Kazz's advice is good, those three little words...."I am sorry" or "I love you" are maybe the hardest to say when you have a row but they are the quickest way to repair a relationship

Take care



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15-05-2007, 01:49 PM   #30

Re: Bad day, really upset.


Wise words from Mags..

I'm so sorry the wee bird didn't make it but you cared enough not to leave it on the road.(((((((())))))) Hugs. Hope you feel better.



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