Is she pregnant?

[Jules]

Originally Posted by yola

Jules - good luck with the kittens if indeed that is what is happening. I do think you should run it by the vet just to be sure and to make sure there are no other health issues.

There are members here (myself included) who work for charities that are constantly advocating the benefits of neutering/spaying, and unplanned kittens are a very emotive subject as there seems to be an uphill struggle against people's apathy with regard to safeguarding their pets against having or causing unwanted pregnancies. I'm not saying this is the case in your situation at all, but we do come across it most days sadly.

We all want the best for you, your cat and your kittens but certain frustrations do boil over when unplanned cat pregnancies are discussed.

I do appreciate what you are saying and agree with you, no-one is more upset about this than me, Dawn has already expressed her opinion on another forum so i felt it was uneccesary for her to come here and do it again and to imply i do not care about my animals, how dare she!

I took in a pregnant cat a couple of years ago and gave her and her kittens a safe place so i do not appreciate people making judgements on me for one mistake, i dont deny its all my fault, never have and have certainly not "gloated" about it as Dawn has implied on her website!!

Originally Posted by Fran

Jules, good luck with the kittens. It might be just worth getting her checked over by the vet and he might be able to give you an idea just how far along she is. Please feel free to PM me if you have any worries or concerns.

The vet has been seen and all is well, she has 2-3 weeks to go, i will will be doing my upmost to ensure her wellbeing, may well take you up on that offer of advice, thank you

[borderdawn]

Sorry, dont buy it for one minute. You can manage to keep your dogs seperate whilst she was in season, one of them is intent on killing your Cats, yet this little soul has taken a back place and been overlooked! Is it Isabel? If so she is what 11mths? (apologies if Im wrong there) but if I am you have had at least 5mths to get the Cat spayed, its a disgrace, adding to the HUGE number of moggy kittens bred without responsibility. I despair at the amount of owners that treat their own Cats like this, I really dont know how you could let this happen, I really dont.

As for my posting on another forum, why not? You did didnt you! Im glad you read the article on my website, its a shame it was after this poor little soul got pregnant wasnt it!

Im sorry you think I am being harsh or judgemental, but what I see in front of me is exactly what I have said, I dont "pretend" things are great, its a bloody disgrace, I feel so so sorry for that little Cat and I only hope and pray that she is ok and her and her offspring and not infected with disease because of you having other things to deal with leaving her at the back of your mind.

Yola is correct, its an emotive subject, and I apologise if I have offended you, but I had an awful lot of respect for you, I admired your strength to resolve the issues with your new Dog trying to attack your Cats, when I read this stuff it left me speechless, Im sorry but it did.

[Jules]

Yes, Dawn so you have already said, more than once.

Yes it is a disgrace and could have been avoided, dont you think i know that?

IT WAS MY MISTAKE and i have never once tried to say otherwise, you make it sound like i did this deliberately which is not the case regardless of what you think. But then you like to get peoples backs up dont you, had lots of pm's saying just that!

Would you prefer i chuck her out and let someone else deal with it? Or seek advice on how to take care of her?

The damage is done, so harping on about the right and wrong of it isnt going to help anyone is it?

I dont care whether you "buy it" or not as at the end of the day your opinion is neither here nor there.

So, you can continue to bad mouth me all you like as i have stopped listening as have many others!

[borderdawn]

Originally Posted by Jules

Yes, Dawn so you have already said, more than once.

Yes it is a disgrace and could have been avoided, dont you think i know that?

IT WAS MY MISTAKE and i have never once tried to say otherwise, you make it sound like i did this deliberately which is not the case regardless of what you think. But then you like to get peoples backs up dont you, had lots of pm's saying just that!

Would you prefer i chuck her out and let someone else deal with it? Or seek advice on how to take care of her?

The damage is done, so harping on about the right and wrong of it isnt going to help anyone is it?

I dont care whether you "buy it" or not as at the end of the day your opinion is neither here nor there.

So, you can continue to bad mouth me all you like as i have stopped listening as have many others!

Pm's or not, I dont care, you have done very wrong by the pet you are supposed to be responsible for. Many people keep quiet on how they feel, thats fine if they want to do that but I dont, I dont paint pretty pictures, and to answer your question on throwing her out? Do you want me to answer whether another home would of landed her in this situation? ...............................................or not?

Now then, good luck to your poor kitten, I hope she comes through ok, Ill be thinking of her.

[Jules]

Originally Posted by borderdawn

Pm's or not, I dont care, you have done very wrong by the pet you are supposed to be responsible for. Many people keep quiet on how they feel, thats fine if they want to do that but I dont, I dont paint pretty pictures, and to answer your question on throwing her out? Do you want me to answer whether another home would of landed her in this situation? ...............................................or not?

Now then, good luck to your poor kitten, I hope she comes through ok, Ill be thinking of her.

Just shows quite how short sighted you are as all i have done is AGREE with you.

I have said from the very beginning how stupid i have been, so i dont quite understand why you keep repeating yourself.

As for your last comment, i think you'll find that wasnt the question.

[borderdawn]

As I said Jules, Ill be thinking of the poor mite.

Nowt more to say really is there?

[Jules]

Originally Posted by borderdawn

As I said Jules, Ill be thinking of the poor mite.

Nowt more to say really is there?

Wow now theres a first

[borderdawn]

Hey, watch yourself!

[Jules]

Originally Posted by borderdawn

Hey, watch yourself!

See i knew you couldnt resist