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Elaine
15-03-2009, 09:01 AM
Abi was pts a few minutes ago as her condition had deteriorated. Such a terrible shame for such a young kitty to go like this.:cry:
R.I.P. Sweetpea, breathe easy now xxx
She is Gone
You can shed tears that she is gone, Or you can smile because she lived.
You can close your eyes and pray that she will come back,
Or you can open your eyes and see all that she has left.
Your heart can be empty because you can't see her,
Or you can be full of the love that you shared.
You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday,
Or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday.
You can remember her and only that she is gone,
Or you can cherish her memory and let it live on.
You can cry and close your mind, be empty and turn your back,
Or you can do what she would want: smile, open your eyes, love and go on.
Author - David Harkins
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Donna
15-03-2009, 09:03 AM
I am so sorry Elaine x
on no :cry: RIP baby girl xx Love to Emma and Kieran xxx
alexgirl73
15-03-2009, 10:36 AM
So very sad :(
RIP Abi, play at the Bridge xx
dinahsmum
15-03-2009, 10:59 AM
Oh pretty girl - what a shame
pookyandjo
15-03-2009, 11:04 AM
Im so sorry Elaine...Im sure Tinky is looking out for her.. they can take care of each other..
Take care
Jo xox
EmmaG
15-03-2009, 02:18 PM
RIP pretty girly :(
niki71uk
15-03-2009, 03:28 PM
Abi was pts a few minutes ago as her condition had deteriorated. Such a terrible shame for such a young kitty to go like this.:cry:
R.I.P. Sweetpea, breathe easy now xxx
She is Gone
You can shed tears that she is gone, Or you can smile because she lived.
You can close your eyes and pray that she will come back,
Or you can open your eyes and see all that she has left.
Your heart can be empty because you can't see her,
Or you can be full of the love that you shared.
You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday,
Or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday.
You can remember her and only that she is gone,
Or you can cherish her memory and let it live on.
You can cry and close your mind, be empty and turn your back,
Or you can do what she would want: smile, open your eyes, love and go on.
Author - David Harkins
http://i15.photobucket.com/albums/a398/ElainePirie/Pet%20sitting/DSC00025.jpg
lovely poem that,elaine,that was read at my gran funeral last wk x
So, so sorry Elaine - she was so beautiful. Lovely poem.
Sorry to hear the sad news....:(
angieh
15-03-2009, 04:22 PM
So sorry to hear the sad news. RIP beautiful Abi.
smudgley
15-03-2009, 04:28 PM
Oh no. :(
Sorry to hear this sad news. :cry:
Elaine
15-03-2009, 04:31 PM
Thankyou all, I am going to see Emma later and will pass on all your sympathies.
I know she is very upset, confused and beating herself up about it.
dandysmom
15-03-2009, 04:37 PM
Emma shouldn't blame herself; they are so very good at disguising the symptoms until it's too late. Please give her my condolences.
Elaine
15-03-2009, 04:45 PM
Thanx Eileen and I know what you mean but I think we all do blame ourselves in these instances, whether there is blame to be had or not.
It's just so sad when they go so young.
PoshPuss
15-03-2009, 04:49 PM
How sad :(
So sorry for you all. Be at peace little one.
dandysmom
15-03-2009, 04:52 PM
Of course we blame ourselves, can't be helped, it's human nature. As I said in the other thread, after reading the symptoms I realized after all these years that's what Su-ling had, and I didn't know about it at the time; it's given me a bit of peace finally knowing....and yes, I feel guilty now, although I shouldn't ..... poor Emma.
Elaine
15-03-2009, 05:03 PM
Hugs to you Eileen xxx
These things are never easy, young or old but atleast when they are old you can be comforted by the fact that they have had a long, happy, healthy life. Snatched so young just seems so unfair.
Oh my goodness :cry: How tragic. Emma must be distraught as must her son.
Is this the cat Jac has originally but couldn't keep? If so - has someone told Jac . . .
Elaine
15-03-2009, 08:05 PM
Just been on the phone to Emma, she is finding it difficult to accept that Abi has gone. On the other hand children being children and living in the moment said to his nan that Abi was now in heaven and we can see her when we look at the stars, his next sentence was, but Peery (thats what he calls me) might bring us another pretty cat if we ask her. Jim, Emma's partner, is also very emotional over the loss of Abi.
Caspurr is fine but is aware that his little friend isnt around for him to chase.
I havent contacted Jac as I dont have her contact number, so if any one else does, could they let her know the sad news.
sarahd
15-03-2009, 08:10 PM
Please pass on my best wishes to Emma and tell her she is in my thoughts at this very sad time.
I have tried to contact Jac to tell her the news also but i dont have a valid number for her.
I've also been trying to contact Abi's breeder to let her know whats happened but cant get hold of her either :(
RIP special Girl and run free on the Rainbow Bridge xxx
dandysmom
15-03-2009, 08:11 PM
I managed to read this thread without crying until now, but that beautiful remark of the little boy's had me tearing up a bit.... out of the mouths of babes .....
Phoenix
15-03-2009, 08:19 PM
Oh no! :( Poor Abi :(
Could you pass my condolescences on as well please Elaine? :(
Elaine
15-03-2009, 08:31 PM
Please pass on my best wishes to Emma and tell her she is in my thoughts at this very sad time.
I have tried to contact Jac to tell her the news also but i dont have a valid number for her.
I've also been trying to contact Abi's breeder to let her know whats happened but cant get hold of her either :(
RIP special Girl and run free on the Rainbow Bridge xxx
Thankyou Sarah, I will.
It's just one of those very sad things.
alexgirl73
15-03-2009, 08:32 PM
Oh I forgot that Abi was originally Jacs! I think the only person who may have a contact number for Jac would be Moli.
sarahd
15-03-2009, 09:07 PM
Just managed to get hold of Jac. As you can imagine she is heartbroken at the news.
Elaine please can you best on her best wishes to Emma and tell her how sorry she is at what's happened.
janey83
15-03-2009, 09:50 PM
Aww, R.I.P beautiful Abi x
random
15-03-2009, 11:41 PM
Oh no Elaine I am so sorry to hear this. :( How dreadful. :(
dinahsmum
16-03-2009, 09:32 AM
Chink chink, as pennies drop :roll:
Was this the little baby that was quite ill when she was little, or was that the other one?
Sorry - memory failure!
Ah - yes DM. One of Jacs little ones was very unwell as a kitten; I can't remembe which though. If it was poor Abi then that explains a lot :(
alexgirl73
16-03-2009, 01:40 PM
no, Caspurr was the one who was ill when little.
Elaine
16-03-2009, 01:51 PM
As Alex said, Caspurr was the poorly kitten who reacted badly to the inoculations. Abi as far as we were aware was always healthy. No murmer or anything was detected when she was spayed around 7 months ago. The condition, sadly, is just one of those things and very often there is no explanation as to why it happens from what i can gather.
What a beautiful cat - I am so sorry as I gather she was young too its such a shame . Bless. Jan x
Elaine
17-03-2009, 08:59 AM
Thanx Jan xxx
mattde
17-03-2009, 09:36 AM
Sorry to hear that, what a beautiful cat .
Elaine
17-03-2009, 09:39 AM
Thanx Mattde, she was the sweetest little cat.
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