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kitty cat
25-10-2007, 03:32 PM
Hi I am new to this forum but would like to ask members a question. Having thought about getting a kitten for along time I decided to get some numbers of local rescues in the Dudley area so visited my vets which had a poster up saying homes urgently needed for cats and kittens from KATS CRADLE brilliant I thought so I gave them a phone right away. The lady on the phone asked where I lived and I told her my estate at that she said NO WE WON'T CONSIDER ANYONE ON THAT ESTATE WE'RE WANTING ALL THE CATS OFF THAT ESTATE .Now my question is being homeowners and both in full time work, and on a relatively quiet street why are we not even getting considered. No home check nothing not even one question just a flat out NO.why is everybody tarred with the same brush. Has anyone else encountered this blatant snobbery.

Elaine
25-10-2007, 03:49 PM
I totally agree with you, I think home checks should always be done and each case judged on its own merits. Its because of these stupid blanket rulings that make people turn to places like free ads etc, which in my opinion are awful. Rescues are full to over flowing and surely want to find good homes for the animals. I have had a similar experience lately while looking for a cat for a friend of mine.
Maybe you should try some of the independant rescues.
http://www.catchat.org/adoption/index.html
This might help you find some others in your area.

Fran
25-10-2007, 03:53 PM
Warm welcome to Catsey! I have no idea why you have been turned down for a kitten, just because you live on a certain estate, it certainly does seem rather bizarre :?

One of our members on here, Smudgley, works for the Cats Protection League and I think she lives in your area. Perhaps you could pm her and ask her advice? Alternatively, hopefully she will be along and see this thread. Good luck in your search for a kitten. Do let us know how you get on.

Elaine
25-10-2007, 04:04 PM
Sorry my English geography is terrible, I had no idea Smudgley was near Dudley.
There you go then, Smudgley may be able to help;)

Fran
25-10-2007, 04:06 PM
Sorry my English geography is terrible, I had no idea Smudgley was near Dudley.
There you go then, Smudgley may be able to help;)



Actually I don't know where Dudley is (I missed that bit) :oops: I just saw that she was in the West Midlands and that's the area Smudgley is in isn't it, although I guess West Midlands is quite a vast area? My geography is not hot either :roll:

dinahsmum
25-10-2007, 04:14 PM
lol @ Elaine & Fran! :)
Smudgley wil be perfect for kitty cat! Let's hope she's back on soon

dandysmom
25-10-2007, 04:39 PM
That's terribly discriminatory tarring everyone in an area with the same brush! And not even consider a home visit? Awful! Hope Smudgley reads this soon; good luck in finding a kitten!

kitty cat
25-10-2007, 04:45 PM
Warm welcome to Catsey! I have no idea why you have been turned down for a kitten, just because you live on a certain estate, it certainly does seem rather bizarre :?

One of our members on here, Smudgley, works for the Cats Protection League and I think she lives in your area. Perhaps you could pm her and ask her advice? Alternatively, hopefully she will be along and see this thread. Good luck in your search for a kitten. Do let us know how you get on.

thank you all for your reply. But the lady i spoke to from Kats cradle said that there was no point in me phoning PAWS or Cats Protection League as they would tell me the samething about rehoming to my estate.

borderdawn
25-10-2007, 05:10 PM
I live in Walsall, and had a Cat from Cats protection. Smudgley who does CP lives in Wall heath I think, so right by you. Im sure she will be able to advise you more, she's a good girl!

Elaine
25-10-2007, 05:46 PM
thank you all for your reply. But the lady i spoke to from Kats cradle said that there was no point in me phoning PAWS or Cats Protection League as they would tell me the samething about rehoming to my estate.

I dont think Kats Cradle should take it upon themselves to become spokes people on what other rescues policies on rehoming are.

Luke
25-10-2007, 06:49 PM
I too found it numerous times with rescue..
"Terrier dogs will apparently kill a cat outright."
"A cul-de-sac is a death trap for a cat, they get too used to quietness so if they stray they wouldn't stand a chance."
Yet from the same rescue at a different time "You live too close to a moderately busy road"
"Your garden isn't big enough"
"You don't have a catflap"
Numerous responses from various rescues.
I agree with Elaine that it does encourage people to go elsewhere when the rescue is so bad. Which is really a shame. But in some cases the policies really are very severe, well imo anyway.

tilly
25-10-2007, 07:09 PM
I have to say nothing annoys me more then rescues saying they are desperate for home and then say ing no for stupid reasions without even checking your home.
hope you find a kitten soon.
SAlly

smudgley
25-10-2007, 07:27 PM
Hi kitty kat.

The only possibility I can think of is that, IF you live in a certain part of Stourbridge (I guess you don't as you live in Dudley) but there are about 3/4 roads in Stourbridge where cats have been going missing at a ridiculous rate over the last 3 years. There has been a lot of publicity about it & rumours about all sorts of things happening to these missing cats, so I know that some rescues won't rehome there, but obviously only for genuine reasons for the health & welfare of these cats.

Phone me. I'll PM you my number. I have cats & kittens needing homes (you'll find their photos & info on here) & I'm from Stourbridge & District CP & we cover all of the DY postcode area..... please phone me, I can discuss a cat with you.... Oh & welcome to Catsey.

Please don't judge all rescues the same. Erin has had 2 kittens from me and Grete has had an adult cat from me and Kazz and Alex have been & seen the CP set up here. :)

smudgley
25-10-2007, 07:33 PM
HELLO. WE NEED A HOME (ONE OF US DOES)


http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v188/smudgley2/EchoBelle024.jpg

Kay
25-10-2007, 08:11 PM
Definitely approach Smudgley I am sure she will be able to help. Kats Cradle has no legal right to say that PAWS or CPL won'r rehome to your estate either. This is total discrimination.

Smudgley where are you! (OOPS there you are)

Elaine
25-10-2007, 09:08 PM
Hi kitty kat.

The only possibility I can think of is that, IF you live in a certain part of Stourbridge (I guess you don't as you live in Dudley) but there are about 3/4 roads in Stourbridge where cats have been going missing at a ridiculous rate over the last 3 years. There has been a lot of publicity about it & rumours about all sorts of things happening to these missing cats, so I know that some rescues won't rehome there, but obviously only for genuine reasons for the health & welfare of these cats.



I can understand rescues not wanting to rehome to that area, under those circumstances but surely the rescue should explain these things to people enquiring about a cat in such an area.

yola
25-10-2007, 09:10 PM
All the best in your quest for a new cat Kitty Cat. I hope our Smudgely can help you!

Hoping for good news all around :D

kitty cat
25-10-2007, 09:35 PM
thanks for all your help i have got in touch with smudgely so im keeping my fingers crossed

Erin
25-10-2007, 09:41 PM
thanks for all your help i have got in touch with smudgely so im keeping my fingers crossed

hope you get to have 1 of Smudgley Kittens,I have 2 here and they are gorgeous :-D

Fran
25-10-2007, 09:41 PM
Fingers crossed for you kitty cat!

smudgley
25-10-2007, 09:49 PM
Guess what!

Kitty cat is coming to see all of my kitty cats on Sunday at 2pm. :)

Erin
25-10-2007, 09:57 PM
Guess what!

Kitty cat is coming to see all of my kitty cats on Sunday at 2pm. :)

yay!!!!!! fingers crossed you will be able to help her Smudgley :D

dandysmom
25-10-2007, 10:00 PM
Good news! How fortunate that she turned out to be in your area....,meant to be??

alexgirl73
25-10-2007, 10:12 PM
very pleased. Hope one of yours turns out to be suitable for her.

Elaine
25-10-2007, 10:29 PM
Nice one;)

smudgley
25-10-2007, 10:34 PM
I'm sure he will be suitable....

How could anyone resist this little man..(one at front with head down) :roll:

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v188/smudgley2/catsprotectionEchoBelleVienna041.jpg

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v188/smudgley2/catsprotectionEchoBelleVienna044.jpg

Erin
25-10-2007, 10:40 PM
awwwwww such a little darling. I remember when Milo and Tink were that small :( they grow up far to quickly :roll:

dandysmom
25-10-2007, 10:48 PM
Awww's the word...so, so cute...

Fran
25-10-2007, 10:59 PM
Excellent news!! :D

Grete
25-10-2007, 11:02 PM
Yay that's great :) Smudgely's cats are the BEST!! Ok I might be biased but still :)

dinahsmum
26-10-2007, 10:39 AM
It's sounding good!

tilly
26-10-2007, 05:41 PM
Hope smudgley can help you out.
Sally

Jane
26-10-2007, 05:50 PM
Yay hope Smudgely has a kitty right for you :D

Mags
27-10-2007, 03:33 PM
Kitty cat, if you want a healthy, well socialised kitten, Smudgley is truly the person to accommodate you.....:D
http://www.cosgan.de/images/smilie/tiere/o015.gif

Kay
27-10-2007, 03:51 PM
Fingers crossed everything works out well for you and that cute little man.

Jac
27-10-2007, 03:53 PM
Only one more sleep for Kitty Cat:-D

Kay
27-10-2007, 05:03 PM
Only one more sleep for Kitty Cat:-D
Oh you talk in sleeps as well, Jac ;) ;) .

Erin
27-10-2007, 07:39 PM
I talk in sleeps too :lol:

smudgley
27-10-2007, 08:02 PM
I talk in sleeps too :lol:

You invented them! :-D

Kay
27-10-2007, 11:28 PM
Glad I am not the only mad one around here then :lol: :lol:

kitty cat
28-10-2007, 10:34 AM
only a few more hours and i cant wait to meet him.he looks lovely in his pic fingers crossed it all goes well

Mags
28-10-2007, 11:12 AM
I really hope he's the kitty for you KC .......... fingers crossed here that it all goes well for you ......... good luck!! :D
http://bestsmileys.com/fingers/1.gif

Grete
28-10-2007, 11:33 AM
Fingers and paws crossed for you here :))

Jac
28-10-2007, 01:45 PM
Fingers and paws crossed for you here :))
From me too. Let us know how you get on.:D

dandysmom
28-10-2007, 04:00 PM
Eagerly awaiting a report, Kitty Cat!!

Donna
28-10-2007, 04:04 PM
Good luck!!

Mags
28-10-2007, 04:16 PM
Any news yet Kitty Cat/ Smudgley?

Jane
28-10-2007, 04:20 PM
Any news? :D

smudgley
28-10-2007, 04:47 PM
reserved :-D

dandysmom
28-10-2007, 04:48 PM
"Oh happy day" ......... :D :D :D

Donna
28-10-2007, 04:54 PM
Great news!!

kitty cat
28-10-2007, 05:30 PM
what can i say he is beautiful. Thank you so much smudgely i cant wait to get him home

Elaine
28-10-2007, 05:32 PM
Aww bless, that is good news.:D

Jac
28-10-2007, 05:48 PM
Fantastic news I'm well chuffed for you.

Fran
28-10-2007, 05:50 PM
Excellent news!!!!! :D How long until you can go and get him?

smudgley
28-10-2007, 05:52 PM
Excellent news!!!!! :D How long until you can go and get him?

He's about 6 weeks now.... although I must check excactly when he came in & how old he is now, but he must be at least 6 weeks & he will go in 3 weeks.

Jane
28-10-2007, 06:13 PM
YAY! That's great news :D Wooo I'm so happy for you :)

Erin
28-10-2007, 06:14 PM
Thats great news,Congratulations Kitty Cat :D

Mags
28-10-2007, 06:49 PM
Wonderful news .......another Smudgley kitty joins Catsey! At this rate we'll have to have a special Smudgley Cat Section!! :-D

Kazz
28-10-2007, 07:16 PM
What are you thinking of calling him then Kittycat. And congratulations

Kay
28-10-2007, 07:22 PM
Congratulations to both you and the little man. It was obviously meant to be.

Grete
28-10-2007, 07:58 PM
Yay fantastic news!! He is such a cutie :)

alexgirl73
28-10-2007, 10:13 PM
fantastic, so pleased for you!

Moli
28-10-2007, 10:19 PM
Great news, so pleased for you...

tilly
29-10-2007, 04:52 PM
Glad to hear that you have found a kiity to join you family.
Sally

kitty cat
30-10-2007, 10:57 AM
thanks everyone ive decided to call him jack . im counting the days .

Kay
01-11-2007, 11:51 PM
Love the name. Post lots of pics of little Jack as soon as you get him.