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16-05-2007, 11:42 PM
I have asked on Dogsey too but I wanted to ask here as I got such great advice on my own relationship, I just wanted to know what you guys thought of this.
Basically a very good friend of mine knew a girl some years ago, who he nearly had a relationship with. They both fancied each other (that sounds so schoolgirl! lol) and got on well but were too shy for one reason or another to make a go of things right away, and before it could progress any futher, thinking she was only a friend, he started seeing someone else. In doing this he broke her heart and didn't see her for some years.
Now they have recently came back in contact again, and some people think she still has feelings for him. In an email she said she was gutted she'd missed the boat, and that she still really liked him, he was looking good and he still makes her laugh as he always did.
Now as a woman I think she's trying to tell him how she still feels, but obviously she's afraid of being rejected by him for a second time. But he is having none of it and will not believe she wants to be anything but friends. Also when they chat she is very 'touchy feely', but then some people are like that anyway I guess, but it's just another factor. The atmosphere is awkward now between them and i've said they need to sit down and have a proper chat about everything and it might make things easier when everything is out in the open, no hidden feelings. He's even afraid to call her on the phone over business stuff, and he doesn't know why! http://www.dogsey.com/images/smilies/icon_eek.gif http://www.dogsey.com/images/smilies/icon_rolleyes.gif
So what do you guys think? Just by going on the 'story so far', and mainly what she said in her email, do you think she still has feelings, or just wants to be friends?
Thanx guys! I know it's kinda vague to go off but any advice is welcome.
Basically a very good friend of mine knew a girl some years ago, who he nearly had a relationship with. They both fancied each other (that sounds so schoolgirl! lol) and got on well but were too shy for one reason or another to make a go of things right away, and before it could progress any futher, thinking she was only a friend, he started seeing someone else. In doing this he broke her heart and didn't see her for some years.
Now they have recently came back in contact again, and some people think she still has feelings for him. In an email she said she was gutted she'd missed the boat, and that she still really liked him, he was looking good and he still makes her laugh as he always did.
Now as a woman I think she's trying to tell him how she still feels, but obviously she's afraid of being rejected by him for a second time. But he is having none of it and will not believe she wants to be anything but friends. Also when they chat she is very 'touchy feely', but then some people are like that anyway I guess, but it's just another factor. The atmosphere is awkward now between them and i've said they need to sit down and have a proper chat about everything and it might make things easier when everything is out in the open, no hidden feelings. He's even afraid to call her on the phone over business stuff, and he doesn't know why! http://www.dogsey.com/images/smilies/icon_eek.gif http://www.dogsey.com/images/smilies/icon_rolleyes.gif
So what do you guys think? Just by going on the 'story so far', and mainly what she said in her email, do you think she still has feelings, or just wants to be friends?
Thanx guys! I know it's kinda vague to go off but any advice is welcome.