Lucky....

[Fran]

Well things are getting worse here :( Lucky is struggling to use one of her back legs. She is limping very badly and still isn't eating very much, I assume she is in pain :( Off to the vets at 11.20am in the morning but I really think the outcome of this isn't going to be good :cry:

[CathyW]

oh dear,give her a gentle cuddle from me.

[Fran]

thanks bm...will do

[EmmaG]

Oh I am so so sorry to hear that Fran :(

[yola]

Oh Fran . . . I'm so sorry that Lucky's taken a turn for the worse. I hope the vet can provide a solution. I will keep my fingers crossed for you.

{{{hugs}}}

[Jeanette]

Oh Fran:-(

I'm so sorry to hear this:-(

Poor Lucky.... Give her a hug and kiss from Oliver and me

[Jac]

What a shame. Give an extra cuddle from me. I really hope your wrong Fran. Will keep my fingers crossed that all you need is some meta calm.

[Fran]

She is having a steroid tablet every day which I think is stronger than metacam :? I have metacam here but am scared to give her it incase it shouldn't be given with steroids??

[Jac]

Oh sorry, I didn't realise you were useing steroids.

[Elfin]

Fran, good luck at the vets tomorrow hope you get it all resolved and give Lucky a hug from me and Sappho.

[Tom]

Well things are getting worse here :( Lucky is struggling to use one of her back legs. She is limping very badly and still isn't eating very much, I assume she is in pain :( Off to the vets at 11.20am in the morning but I really think the outcome of this isn't going to be good :cry:


Awww poor cat, mum its not really looking good tho is it :(

[borderdawn]

Oh dear Fran.

Metacam is a NON steroidal anti inflammatory drug. It has pain relief and anti-inflammatory properties. Steroids dont really provide any pain relief, maybe a switch back to Metacam or a combination of both will see her perk up, I hope so.
Dawn.

[Luke]

Oh Fran:cry: i hope it isn't as bad as feared.
My thoughts are with you all:(

[Fran]

Oh dear Fran.

Metacam is a NON steroidal anti inflammatory drug. It has pain relief and anti-inflammatory properties. Steroids dont really provide any pain relief, maybe a switch back to Metacam or a combination of both will see her perk up, I hope so.
Dawn.

Steroids are anti-inflammatory drugs, metacam is a non steroidal anti-inflammatory drug similar to human Ibuprofen. She has never been prescribed Metacam, the vet went straight in and put her on steroids as they are stronger. I have Metacam in for another reason but because she is on steroids I will wait to speak to the vet before using Metacam..

She seems very depressed :(

[samwise]

I do hope things work out and Lucky feels better!
{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

[dinahsmum]

Poor Lucky. Poor you.:(
Your vet will advise.
Don't let her suffer
Hugs. Sorry:(

[Kazz]

Take care Fran my thoughts are more with you than you will ever know. Take care of yourself and give her a rub under the chin for me will you, and maybe a slice of off the bone ham.

Karen

[Fran]

Take care Fran my thoughts are more with you than you will ever know. Take care of yourself and give her a rub under the chin for me will you, and maybe a slice of off the bone ham.

Karen

Thanks Kazz..I am sure you know how I am feeling right now. She won't even eat the ham off the bone :( She is very depressed :cry:

[Kazz]

Fran no idea what to say and even if I did I know it won't ease the lump in your throat.

Take care of yourself. Karen

[Fran]

Fran no idea what to say and even if I did I know it won't ease the lump in your throat.

Take care of yourself. Karen

I know Kazz, no need for you to say anything...I know you are there for me and Lucky in spirit ;)

It's not a lump in my throat but bursting into tears every few minutes :?

[Fran]

I hope I get just one more Christmas with her :-)

[Kazz]

I know Kazz, no need for you to say anything...I know you are there for me and Lucky in spirit ;)

It's not a lump in my throat but bursting into tears every few minutes :?

Its a ****** ain't it girl. All these years............

[Fran]

Its a ****** ain't it girl. All these years............

Yup it is Kazz...but I am grateful for all the years I have had with her...and thank God for allowing me all this time with her :-)

[borderdawn]

Why dont you ring the Vet and ask if you can give Metacam? or something else.
Dawn.

[smudgley]

Sorry to hear lucky is worse PK:(

I wouldn't give her any metacam without the vet prescribing it. As long as she is comfortable - I would just wait & see what the vet says tomorrow.

Thinking of you. :cat21

[Fran]

Why dont you ring the Vet and ask if you can give Metacam? or something else.
Dawn.

I spoke to someone this evening..I can't give the Metacam. Will see what happens tomorrow at the vets. At present she is layed on a hot water bottle and I have put Maud in with her for company. Did think about bringing her up to bed with us but it isn't her routine and I think would stress her more :?

[Fran]

Sorry to hear lucky is worse PK:(

I wouldn't give her any metacam without the vet prescribing it. As long as she is comfortable - I would just wait & see what the vet says tomorrow.

Thinking of you. :cat21

Thank you Smudgley..no haven't given her the Metacam. Will see what happens at the vets tomorrow....

[smudgley]

Isn't it funny - I know your called Fran - but when I type I automatically put PK:roll:

[Fran]

Isn't it funny - I know your called Fran - but when I type I automatically put PK:roll:

:lol: so does Moli and Jac....I don't mind what you call me Smudgley ;)

[Kazz]

Morning Fran how is she this morning and how are you?

[Fran]

Morning Kazz, thank you for asking. I am a little apprehensive of what the vet is going to say. Lucky is much the same. Although she is a little more 'chatty' this morning than she was last night...doesn't seem so depressed....

[borderdawn]

Good luck Fran, hope they can help her.
Dawn.

[Kazz]

Sounds like she hada good nights sleep. Hope the vet can help I really do.

[Kay]

Fran, so sorry to her Lucky has taken a turn for the worse. Hope everything goes alright at the vets this morning. I will be thinking about you both. Give Lucky and hug from me and all the Tilsie cats, and a hug from me to you as well.

[Donna]

I am hoping the vet can give her something to help Fran. Am thinking of you this morning. Give Lucky a cuddle from me x

[Mags]

Fran, I've only just caught up with this thread and I'm so sorry to hear how poorly Lucky is.....old age is so sad...I hope the vet can give her something to make her feel more comfortable, in the meantime just keep her warm, quiet and comfortable. I can understand how upsetting this must be for you and your family to see her like this.....((((((((hugs)))))))) to you and Lucky xx

[Moli]

Just seen this PK, thoughts and "Hug"s for Lucky and your family...............

[Kazz]

Thinking of you Fran

[Elfin]

Thinking of you and Lucky this morning Fran.

[Luke]

thinking of you Fran this morning:)

[Fran]

Ok, back from the vets. The news isn't good. The leg problem it seems is the least of her problems. She has damaged her achilles tendon(well the feline equivalent) but the vet says it is causing her no pain. She seems to have a 'mass' in her bowel, looks like a probable tumour. She has to go back on Tuesday for a 'second' opinion as the vet is not 100% certain and wants another vet look at her.

She has had a steroid jab to help with the leg problem....

[Fran]

Got her the AD diet and for the first time in days she has eaten with a little gusto :)

[dinahsmum]

Sorry to hear this Fran.
Hope the steroid makes her more comfortable. Poor girl:(

[Kazz]

I have been hanging about waiting for you to get back. Give her a hug from me.:D

Take care Karen

[Mags]

Sorry to hear the news isn't good Fran, hope the second opinion will differ.....gentle hugs to Lucky, take care....x

[Moli]

Sorry to hear about Lucky PK, hope the second opinion is good news.........

[borderdawn]

Hope the second opinion is better news Fran.
Dawn.

[Elfin]

Sorry to hear that the news is not good for Lucky. I am pleased the AD is working for her and that will put your mind at rest if she is eating. Good luck with the second opinion.

[EmmaG]

Oh Fran, I am so sorry to hear about lucky. I hope the mass isn't a lymphoma (this is what Lucy had when she started loosing weight and nothing she ate was absorbed and she kept being sick all the time) I think at this time her eating as much as she wants to is very important.

[CathyW]

poor baby :?

[Jeanette]

Oh Fran.....:-(

I'm sorry... I hope the second vet's opinion will differ from the first. And I'm happy she's eaten some food today.

Hugs to Lucky and hugs to you.

You know where I am, if you need a chat:-)

J

[Kay]

Got her the AD diet and for the first time in days she has eaten with a little gusto :)

Glad to hear that she is eating the AD with some gusto, it is brilliant stuff. You can warm it up in the microwave a little, apparently it brings out the flavour a bit more. Sorry the new wasn't better. I will keep my fingers crossed for the second opinion. Keep your chin up and hugs to you both.

[Mags]

Fran, how has Lucky been today?

[Fran]

Thank you for asking Mags...she has not been too good really. Her leg is bad, severe limp, I am worried about her falling, she has lost interest in the AD diet...I think her time has come Mags..

[Mags]

So sorry to hear that Fran, try not to think of the worst, wait for the second opinion......thinking of you both ((((hugs))))

[Kazz]

Take care of yourself Fran and remember nothing is ever as bad as we imagine it to be. Believe me.
As I say take care, and don't forget your part of the cat "owners" terms and conditions.;)
(((((((hugs))))))) Karen

[Fran]

Thank you both...
You are right Kazz...I signed an invisible contract all those years ago which stated that I would always do my very best for her at all times not matter how hard that would be...




Better a day too early than a day too late ;)

[Kazz]

See knew you'd read it; the trouble is with that contract its not until its needed does the invisible ink makes itself visible;)

And believe me nothing is as bad as we imagine. And luckily cats like dogs don't imagine all they know is they are safe with us, and we'll love them always and forever.

It is hard I know, because I have the red raw puffy eyes to prove it. But I also have a heart thats a little lighter because I know I did my best for him.

[Fran]

Thank you Karen...you are a lovely person and a very dear friend x x

[borderdawn]

Oh dear Fran, I had hoped she would pick up, not too good on here with losing some very precious oldies at this what should be a happy time. Will be thinking of you today.
Dawn.

[smudgley]

Fran - I'm sorry Lucky isn't picking up. How is she today?

Kazz - You say the nicest words at these difficult times.:)

[dinahsmum]

Fran - I'm sorry to hear this, both for you and Lucky.
Lucky doesn't know what is happening, other than the pain and discomfort. I agree with Karen, put Lucky first, even if it will hurt you. So sorry.
Take care x

[Moli]

Sorry to hear about Lucky PK, I know you will do what is right for her.......Thoughts with you.....

[Fran]

Morning all, well Lucky is very much brighter in herself today. STill eating very very little and I think the stress of syringe feeding her is not an option at the grand age of 18. I want her to go with dignity and a dignified old lady she is. At present she is sitting on my lap, something she has never done in 18 years until the last couple of months. She always sits beside as close as possible but never on your lap up until recently. Maud is beside her and Maud is her best feline companion. She is alert and enjoying watching Claude and Clooney playing with the Kitty go Krazy.
Kazz's words are ringing in my ears "better a day too early than a day too late" and it is for that reason that I have not taken her for a second opinion this morning. I have made arrangements for her to cross the Rainbow Bridge, here at home in my arms tomorrow morning

Thank you all for your support and good wishes...you are a great bunch ;)

Fran x

[EmmaG]

Oh I am so so sorry Fran :(

[dinahsmum]

:cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:
We're with you Fran.
It's so nice (totally wrong word, but I'm lost for words just now) that she can pass from her own home - no stressy cat carrier/car journey/waiting room time. You won't have to exit red-eyed from the surgery.
So sorry. Be sad now but soon you will be able to look back with happiness at all your years of good memories.

[Kazz]

And the looking back with a smile is done sooner than you think, because there is so much to look back on. Its hard to remember anything but smiley things,:D Take care of yourself Fran I mean that from the bottom of my heart.

I feel for you I really do; but nothing anyone says will take away what you feel now.

Karen

[Luke]

:cry::cry::cry: Fran i'm so very sorry, but as the others have said it is a road we all must cross, it isn't a nice road by any means but one we all must take.
It is the greatest favour you are doing for Lucky, although it might not seem like it:cry:
Stay strong, think about the good times and you know where i am if you wish to talk:)
best wishes
L x

[Donna]

I am so sorry for you Fran.

Thinking of you and Lucky x

[Het]

ohh Fran...sad news, but well done for being strong, its not easy but we have all been there. As others have said its part of the bargain we make to have the honour of their company. All I can say is that you have many memories of her...and they will always be with you even when she isn't. Its the best way possible...for her to fall asleep in your arms. Thinking of you and Lucky
xx Het

[yola]

Fran . . . I can't type an answer at the moment as I have tears in my eyes and an office full of people looking a bit embarassed.

I'm so, so sorry however. Lucky is indeed Lucky to have a fur-mummy like you. Bless you . . .

[smudgley]

Sorry Fran.
Try & be positive like Kazz - (easy for me to say I know) but hopefully in time you will look back & remember the 18 good years you had together - not the last sad day.
As you know we lost Mitten in October - so sudden - no time for goodbyes - I still miss her loads - but I can now remember some of the good things about her life & less of the day the accident happened.

Take care:)

Thinking of you
big hugs to you Fran. x

[Elfin]

You have made a brave decision Fran and my thoughts are with you and Lucky. Tell her to go find Oscar, Toby and Dugless who went across the Rainbow bridge ahead of her and are waiting to play. Hugs http://www.millan.net/minimations/smileys/grouphugg.gif (http://www.millan.net)

[Mags]

I know you will try to be strong tomorrow Fran, for Lucky's sake. Let the tears flow after and then you will be able to recall all the happy memories of her. At this time in her life, you really are giving Lucky the kindest gift you could....and one that is full of love.
Take care Fran, thinking of you......{{{{{{big hugs}}}}}}

[Kay]

I am so sorry, Fran. Be brave tomorrow for Lucky's sake. I know how hard it is to come to this descision but it is the right one. She is indeed a Lucky cat to have had a long and loving life with you. I hope my Toby will be there to welcome her over the Rainbow Bridge. My thoughts are with you.

Kay.

[borderdawn]

I hope it goes ok Fran.
DAwn.

[Jeanette]

Oh Fran.....:cry:

I'm so sorry... We've talked about this the other day. And I think you are doing the right thing. And I know how hard it is.

I've gone that road 3 times. Mine didnt get to the grand age of 18 but they were all loved just as much.

I'm only a phonecall away.. or a msn box away:-)

Hugs and my thoughts are with you...

J

[EmmaG]

Fran, I will be thinking about you and Lucky tomorrow, if you need a chat you know where I am, I should be online for most of tomorrow.

Big hugs to you

[Fran]

Thank you all x

[Mags]

((((((hugs))))))

[Moli]

BIG "HUGS" to you PK and your family....Patxxxx

[Kazz]

Take care of yourself my friend.

[Luke]

Thinking of you Fran ((((HUGS)))
best wishes
L x

[dinahsmum]

Thinking of you today Fran.
xx

[smudgley]

I'm thinking of you too Fran

[Mags]

My thoughts are with you today Fran......

[yola]

Be strong . . . . {{{hugs}}}}

[Moli]

Thinking of you and your family today PK..........xxx

[Luke]

Good luck Fran, your in a position where your love for Lucky truly shows:)thoughts are with you and the family
best wishes
Lxx

[Emm]

I'm so sorry to hear this

please take care - I'm thinking of you today (((hugs))) xxxxx

Its our last great act of love that we can give them

[borderdawn]

Am thinking of you Fran.
Dawn.

[Naomi]

Big {{{{{hugs}}}}} to you all Fran

[Elfin]

Just wanted to send lots of hugs today.