Urgent I Need Advice!!!!!

[Jeanette]

I have the opportunity to go and get a kitten... Not just a kitten.. But an ickle red male kitten...

Now.. Should I or shouldnt I???

I have Oliver - red male cat 9 years old and neutered and Luna, my choccie labbydor 2½ years old, who loves kittens:-)

[Jac]

Oh go for it! You know you want too;)

[dinahsmum]

Oh J

Went through this a few weeks ago when we were on the verge of geting 2 ginger boys. However, head ruled heart and we didn't:(

So - you're only supposed to have one pet and you already have 2 (Poor Oliver has to live undercover! :) ) Don't get yourself evicted!

But - 2 cats can be friends and can be fun.
But Oliver may not want a friend. My 2 aren't particularly fond of each other.

Not much help was I? - sorry!

[Jeanette]

I do, I do, I do...:)

[Jac]

Sorry J didnt realise you weren't ment to have pets. Mind you the rebel in me would say. Well if I can have one then whats another? Plus they may get on really well. There again they may hate eachother:roll:

[Jeanette]

Oh J

Went through this a few weeks ago when we were on the verge of geting 2 ginger boys. However, head ruled heart and we didn't:(

So - you're only supposed to have one pet and you already have 2 (Poor Oliver has to live undercover! :) ) Don't get yourself evicted!

But - 2 cats can be friends and can be fun.
But Oliver may not want a friend. My 2 aren't particularly fond of each other.

Not much help was I? - sorry!

Oh H...

Actually you are... Oliver didnt do well with the last kitten, did he:-( Oscar I had to give up:-(


Oh rats... Hmm what about 2 kittens?? argh..... I gotta stop..

Gotta think about Oliver... Gotta think about Oliver... Gotta think about Oliver...

But that cute ickle kitty face awwwwwwww

[Jac]

Oh go for it J. Then post lots of piccies;)

[dinahsmum]

It's so boring being sensible! I'm trying to break away as I get older but still have Capricorn and Chinese Ox traits!

Good luck whatever you decide. :cat21

[Jeanette]

Sorry J didnt realise you weren't ment to have pets. Mind you the rebel in me would say. Well if I can have one then whats another? Plus they may get on really well. There again they may hate eachother:roll:

I'm allowed one pet.

Oh ******... I wont do it.. I'll wait till Oliver's no longer here.. So no more cats for me untill hopefully atleast 10 more years

[Jeanette]

It's so boring being sensible! I'm trying to break away as I get older but still have Capricorn and Chinese Ox traits!

Good luck whatever you decide. :cat21

I've decided:-(

I wont do it to Oliver... Its not fair, is it??:-(

Right... No more kitties... Let Oliver get old on his own:-)

He's probablely gonna go through a lot of puppies;-) as soon as I find another place to stay:-)

[randdom]

I've decided:-(

I wont do it to Oliver... Its not fair, is it??:-(

Right... No more kitties... Let Oliver get old on his own:-)

He's probablely gonna go through a lot of puppies;-) as soon as I find another place to stay:-)
On the positive side I have 4 cats in total domino and marmalade (brothers) so they get on really well and play together clean each other etc. We then got Jebus who also gets on really well with the boys and plays with them and marmalade loves to clean her. When I bring Tybby home from brighton he also gets on well with all of them so it can work :)

[Jeanette]

Oh I know it can.

Before I had Luna (labrador) I had always had 2 cats. But Oliver have always been bossed around..

He's only 9½ but see its when they reach the "kevin" stage (cats have them too, right?) that they get too much for him..

And last time he was sat screaming and had a huge scracth on the ear.. My poor guy...

[Tom]

Awww J this is a hard decision(sp?) but do what you think is right! :)

Tom x

[Jeanette]

Ta Tom

Well I've decided that I'm not getting the kitty.. Its a tough decision in one way, but on the other hand, very easy... It just wouldnt be fair on Oliver.

[Tom]

Awww i think you have made the right decision aswell :)

[Jeanette]

Yeah I think so too:)

[cataddiction]

i always say follow your heart if you really want him then go for it, but if you have any doubts then maybe you shouldnt;)

[Jeanette]

Thank you:-)

I have doubts. So wont do it:-) Very wise advice:-)

[Kazz]

I may be late here but glad you didn;t get the kitten leave Oliver in peace:-D

[Jeanette]

Ta Karen:-)

[Fran]

You have to do what is right for you J and at the minute you have probably made the right decision...maybe when you move some where bigger things will be different and you will get another kittie :)

[Jeanette]

Thank you Fran:-)

Are you feeling any better?

[Jac]

I worked for a very wise woman whoes theory was " if in doubt, do nowt" think you made the right decision J

[Jeanette]

Thanks Jac

Yeah I think so too... How ever hard it was..

[Fran]

Thank you Fran:-)

Are you feeling any better?

Yes thank you J a little :)

[Jac]

Glad your feeling a bit better today PK