Kimba & Coco - Orientals

[Hails]

Hi all,

I have two male orientals that need rehoming. :cry: I'm so upset that they have to go so i really want to make sure they go to a good home.

They're both about 11 years old, fantastic personalities, come with their own "furniture" and love someone who has the time to give them lots of love and cuddles.

My fiancee and i have split and with both of us working long days it's unfair to keep them home alone all the time.

Can anybody help?

Thanks.

[dinahsmum]

So sorry that you are thinking of letting your lovely boys go to a new home. :( but understand that you want to do the best for them.
Have you tried the breed rescue society?

[Fran]

Good luck rehoming them...are they neutered and have they to be rehomed together?

[dinahsmum]

Not sure if this link will come up - if it does it's a list of rescue societies.
http://www.catchat.org/adoption/pedigree.html

(and apologies to admin if I shouldn't have posted)

[Hails]

Thanks for that link...I'll have a gander and see what's out there. Really don't want them to go but it's just not fair on them. Will keep everyone updated...thanks for your help.

[Hails]

Hi,
Yep they have been neutured. I wouldn't want to separate them. They've been together forever so just couldn't do it to them. Just hope i can find somewhere lovely for them!

[John]

Hi Hails...you dont say were you live only if some member lived near you they may interested in rehoming

[Jeanette]

I'm so sorry.

I might be totally off here, and if I am I appologise..

But if they are 2, why not keep them? They can keep eachother company while you are at work. And cats are more independant than dogs, so I'm sure they would cope just fine and thrive.

I work fulltime and now I have 1 dog and 1 cat.. I used to have 2 cats...

I dont say this to be mean or rude or anything.. I know you want to do the best for them.

[Donna]

I'm so sorry.

I might be totally off here, and if I am I appologise..

But if they are 2, why not keep them? They can keep eachother company while you are at work. And cats are more independant than dogs, so I'm sure they would cope just fine and thrive.

I work fulltime and now I have 1 dog and 1 cat.. I used to have 2 cats...

I dont say this to be mean or rude or anything.. I know you want to do the best for them.

I was thinking the same to be honest. I work. I leave the house at 8.15 and return at 3.30 with the kids from school. Misty and Chloe are on their own for most of the day but use that time to have a bit of peace and quiet from the kids. They can go out in the garden if they chose but prefer to snuggle up on my bed for some quality cat napping.

They are totally happy. Run down the stairs when we get home and demand food. Then they get the evening and nightime playing and having lots of company.

I dont think they are bothered about being on their own during the day. I think they appreciate it.

[Jac]

for what it's worth. I think they would be fine being left, providing ofcourse they have food water and a litter tray.
Cats unlike dogs can be left for long periods. As log as they get your attention at night.
Hope you find a solution. Please let us know what you decide to do.

[EmmaG]

I agree with the above, I leave work at about 8am and don't get back until about 6pm, my cats are very happy and content.

[Hails]

Just want them to be ok that's all. I leave the flat about 8am and get home most nights just before 8.30pm. I make sure they've got plenty of food and water and a clean tray so they shouldn't want for anything...just don't want them to be missing out on love.

[smudgley]

Hi Hails - I understand this must be a tough time for you & only you can decide what to do - it is obvious you want what's best for your cats & it is a very hard & brave decision to consider rehoming them, however I do agree with what the others have said. I think if they are used to you & the environment then it may be better to keep them, we all know most cats sleep 23 out of every 24 hours anyway:roll: - seriously though lots of cats are happy sleeping & lounging around during the daytime.

Cats find it harder to adjust to new surroundings than dogs & having moved house a year ago & realising that one of my cats never settled in the new house made me understand how hard it can be for some cats to adjust.

However on the other hand I am involved with rehoming cats & could tell you a million & one stories with a happy ending about cats that have been successfully rehomed.

So - it is your decision & you must do what you feel is right - but if you are only rehoming them because you feel guilty that you are not around during the day - I would say in view of their age etc - they would be happier staying with you & being on their own in the day - than re-adjusting to a complete new life.

hope that makes sense.:?

Best wishes whatever you decide to do.:cool:

[Fran]

Excellent advice Smudgley!!

[dinahsmum]

That is very good advice.
I'm sure you're in turmoil now - maybe it would be good to give yourself some time? - don't make a hasty decision you could regret later.
Take care and please come back and chat with us - about anything, doesn't have to be cats!

[Kay]

Don't let them go. Unlike boyfriends they will be there for you no matter what and I am sure that they have plenty of companionship from each other while you are at work they when you come home just think of all that love they will have saved up for you. I know what you are going through as I split from my partner of 5 years earlier this year and the cats, and dogs, have always been there for me. They also will be rather set in their own little ways at their age and may find it difficult readjusting, after all they have had to adjust to your fiance not being there either. Comfort each other. Good luck all of you. ;) ;) ;) ;)

[yola]

Oh Hails . . . how sad for you. I would add my tuppence-worth here and say if you can at all hang on to your cats please do. Cats are very intuitive, and I'm certain they will be a huge support to you whilst you come to terms with your split and will give you that kitty-kiss and cuddle when you need it most.

Please do let us know your decision and how you're getting on.

[Hails]

Hi all,
Just to let you know that Coco passed away before christmas. Kimba has now gone to a friends house to live as there are other pets there. Couldn't bear for him to be on his own after spending forever with Coco. He's doing really well and is happy as Larry! Oh to be a cat!

[dinahsmum]

Oh hi:smt039
December has been a sad cat month and I'm so sorry that Coco was also part of that.
Good news about Kimba; it must be a relief for you that he is happy.
You must miss them................:(

[Mags]

So sorry to hear about Coco:(
Pleased to hear that Kimba has gone to another home with pets.....at least your friend will be able to keep you informed as to how he is doing....

[yola]

Hi - so sorry you lost Coco - still Kimba seems to be doing well, which is excellent!!

Hope you're OK though after all that's happened (if you don't mind me saying so).

[Fran]

So sorry to hear about Coco :( Glad you found a lovely home for Kimba..hope you are ok and bearing up throughout it all. Happy New Year to you x

[LMC]

Sympathies on losing Coco, and hope Kimba settles into his new home - great that you can keep in touch with him and visit for cuddles.

Sounds like you've been having a rough time of things, take it easy and be nice to yourself http://www.cerocscotland.com/forum/images/smilies/hug.gif

[Kay]

So sorry you lost Coco, my thoughts are with you, but it sounds like you have found a lovely home for Kimba and you will still get to see him.

Keep your chin you and I hope next year is better for you.

[Naomi]

I'm so sorry you lost Coco :(

It must have been hard for you but if Kimba's happy then you know you have done the right thing. Hope 2006 brings better things :D