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Thank God he's agreed to the surgery; the alternative was horrible. But it took guts for him to decide to go thru that again after the really terrible time he had. I do pray it won't be as traumatic for him this time and that you'll have him home and well again. Lots of (((hugs))) |
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Well you know it is bad when one of the best cardiac surgeons in the country tells you it'll be a miracle if he survives tomorrow's surgery and he's never done anything this extensive before. To sum it up-- 1) The surgery will be MINIMUM 12 hours IF it all goes "smoothly" 2) They are going to scoop out the sick/dead parts of his heart that resemble raw ground meat and then get human and pig parts and try to put it all back together again and see if it'll function..which is a big MAYBE 3)his metal plate holding his sternum together will be removed because it will attract infection as well with this immune disease he has and so they won't be able to close him up..and plastic surgery might have to figure out skin grafts so he's not open to the world 4)he'll never work again 5)he'll be in intensive care for at least a month 6)oh and that staph infection last summer around his heart where we opened him up and kept him open and you could see his insides move around with each breath? where he was screaming in agony and you could literally see his guts being held in with saran wrap? well that was NOTHING compared to what's in store...IF he lives. i feel like my hearts been ripped out and handed to me. |
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his options were slow agonizing death or high risk surgery and at least die trying if he doesn't pull through. this is his last hope. i keep wondering if i kissed him goodbye for the last time tonight. i broke down and told him to please don't leave me and fight. he was just silent with pain in his eyes. i wish he would have said something back. |
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