new here and needing help

[MissieA]

Hello everyone,

I am new, not only to this site but to being a cat owner as well and I need some advice.

About 1.5 months ago, I noticed a stray cat running around my neighborhood. She was so very skinny. You could see bones when you looked at her. About 2 weeks after I started seeing her, I started feeding her and my daughter talked me into keeping her. SHe has since gone to the vet 3time and has had leukemia testing, immunizations and xrays. She is in great health, other than the fact that she hasn't been taken care of very well. She has since gained 2.5 pounds in 3 weeks and is doing much better. I love her very much, as do my 3 daughters.

Now, the problem.....one of my neighbors came forward yesterday and claims to be the cats owner. SHe did state, however, that her cat was a male. This cat is a female. She seemed to be ok after I told her it wasn't male but later on in the day, while looking for the cat, I found it sitting in the neighbors window, looking out at me and meowing. We called the police who let her keep the cat for now because there is nothing they can do. The officer said that he is going to turn it over to the Animal COntrol Officer. She told the Officer that that is her cat and that I just think it's a female because it has been neutered. Even the vet says its a female.

NOt sure where to go from here. Any advice would be nice. Even if it is her cat, the vet said that the cat was neglected.....could this be used as a defense to keeping the cat?

[dandysmom]

Missy, what a terrible story! Never been in a situation like this so don't really know if the law is on your side or not. When you said she told "the officer" did you mean the police officer or the Animal Control officer? If not the latter, you might want to contact them to see if they can offer any advice. Or do you have an attorney friend who might be able to suggest the next step? That poor little girl needs to be back with you where she's wanted, loved and cared for! Please let us know what happens!

[Sweet]

Hi and welcome to Catsey x

Violet, Mau Mau, Vincent and Mabel wave a paw x

Poor Kitty I hope someone can help x

[yola]

Hello, I don't know how the law works in the U.S., however I would try and get a testimonial from the vet and make a log with a timeline of what has happened together with any additional, anecdotal comments from other neighbours or friends with whom you've discussed the cat's problems and who will be able to support you.

Then put pressure on the police and animal welfare people citing potential neglect and cruelty IF this person is the owner.

Good luck - I hope that might help a little; please do let us know how you get on.

[Mags]

Hello Missie, a warm welcome to Catsey!

What an awful situation to be in! Are there any other neighbours near this woman who could verify that the cat belongs to her?
If it is her cat, it definately sounds like she was neglecting it and it would be far happier with you.

Good luck....and please let us know how you get on...

[MissieA]

Thank you all for all of your support.

I have great news!!!!!

I left a message on the police officer's voice mail yesterday because he told me originally that the neighbor was thinking about just giving us the cat back yesterday morning and that if she didin't, he wanted us to call him. I told him on the voice mail that I wasn't happy with the decision he made and that since I was the one with proof from the vet that I had been treating the cat that I thought I should be the one to have the cat until this all got sorted out. Anyway, when we got up this morning, the cat was on our front porch meowing to come in. I'm not sure if the police officer brought her or if my neighbor did, but I know someone did because my neighbor hadn't let her outside since she got her.

Boy, was she ever happy to see us!!!::D

[yola]

Oh, I'm delighted!!!

Let's hope you can hang on to her and your neighbour stops all this silliness :-D

[alexgirl73]

Welcome to Catsey! Hope it all works out now and that the neighbour doesn't cause any more problems. I would definately keep the cat inside for the time being until it is all sorted properly. Keep us updated!

[Mags]

That's great news, I hope your neighbour will back off now:D

Have you chosen a name for the kitty yet?

Please let us know how things progress;)

[Sweet]

Great news I bet your heart melted and your eyes watered up! Dont let kitty out of your sight until everything is sorted. x

[Donna]

Hi welcome to Catsey and well done for looking after this poor cat. I am glad you have her back and hope you get to keep her from now on.

[Kim]

Hi and welcome to Catsey. I hope all works out well for this little cat, seems like she has well and truly landed on her paws with you!

[MissieA]

I have not let Alexa out of my sight since I got her back this morning. I honestly thought it was a dream.

Now if I could just get her to get along with the dogs I'd be all set. Any ideas??? I have a basset hound and a cockerpoo.

[dandysmom]

What great nrws! (((hugs))) to you and the kitty!

[Donna]

I have not let Alexa out of my sight since I got her back this morning. I honestly thought it was a dream.

Now if I could just get her to get along with the dogs I'd be all set. Any ideas??? I have a basset hound and a cockerpoo.

Make sure she has lots of high places to jump onto so she can get away from the dogs is my advice!! Even feed her and have a bed up high somewhere!!

[Moli]

Hi , welcome to Catsey, so pleased to hear Alexa is now back with you where she belongs....

[Moli]

Pleased to hear she is back where she belongs....

[whiskey]

:smt039 hello and welcome to catsey:smt039

[charliebubs]

Welcome to Catsey Missie. I'm so pleased that the little girl is back with you where she belongs. :)

[Rosie]

Hi Missie so glad you have got her back. I would get her microchipped as quick as poss.

Regarding the dogs - when I got my latest kitten Alfie I put him in the second bedroom and put a wire mesh gate in front of the doorway so that Alfie could see out and my dog could see in. There was a lot of whining on the part of my dog for a few hours but that passed and also Alfie got brave and came up to the mesh because he knew the dog couldn't "get him". That was on the Saturday by Sunday afternoon they were sharing space together in the living room and everything has been fine since and my dog is a lurcher!

[sarahd]

Hi Missie Welcome to Catsey
Glad to hear your story had a happy ending and that Alexa is back with you safe and sound.

Sarah
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